Almost four years ago when I was a Marine stationed in San Diego and only 23 years old, I was very outgoing and loved to have fun. But I wasn’t very confidence. In fact, to this day I still attribute the marriage to my wife I met there to pure dumb luck and being in the right place at the right time. I had never been one to just talk to somebody that I didn’t work with or know through somebody else. Even though I was a Marine, I was not the atypical “Jar-Head”, and only did some physical training when I knew a PFT (Physical Fitness Test) was coming up.